Pathway to Recovery
Pathway to Recovery is an S.A. Lifeline Foundation podcast featuring hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. We have conversations with experts and individuals who understand the pathway to healing from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma because we believe that recovering individuals leads to the healing of families.
Episodes
75 episodes
The 4 C's of Getting Unstuck After Sexual Betrayal w/ Kristin Snowden
In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland talks with Kristin Snowden about getting unstuck when we are feeling paralyzed or overwhelmed by betrayal trauma. Kristen introduces the 'Four Cs'—Choice, Control, Context...
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Season 1
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Episode 74
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48:40
Step 11 - God, Give Me the Words w/ Allison T
In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery Podcast, host Justin B. invites guest Alison T. to explore her journey through the SAL 12-step program, focusing specifically on Step 11. Alison shares her experiences of hitting rock bottom in 2020 du...
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Episode 73
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48:13
How Faith Leaders Can Support Couples Affected By Sexual Addiction & Betrayal Trauma w/ Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith
In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith about their personal experience with sexual addiction and betrayal trauma and their journey to now helping others with similar challenges. The discussion delves into...
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Season 1
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Episode 72
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57:17
Step 10 - God, Help Me See My Reflection for This Day w/Nikita B
God, Help Me See My Reflection for This DayIn this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin B. interviews fellow SAL member, Nikita B. They discuss Nikita's journey from being homeless, suicidal, and overwhelmed by addict...
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Episode 71
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55:53
Learning Healthy Sexuality as Couples and Families Affected by Porn & Sexual Addiction w/ Chelom Leavitt
In this episode, host Tara McCausland and Dr. Chelom Leavitt discuss the importance of learning about and developing healthy sexuality and how that is impacted by pornography and sexual betrayal. Key points include the necessity of establishing...
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Season 1
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Episode 70
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53:02
Step 9 - Healing: Whatever that May Look Like w/ Heather B
In this episode of the 'Pathway to Recovery' podcast, host Justin B. is joined by Heather B., who shares her heartfelt experiences in the rooms of SAL 12-step recovery. Together, they delve into Heather's journey through Step Nine of the recove...
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Episode 70
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58:39
Developing Healthy Communication Skills After Sexual Betrayal w/ Kevin Skinner
In this episode, host Tara McCausland and Dr. Kevin Skinner discuss effective communication strategies for couples dealing with sexual betrayal and addiction. Dr. Skinner emphasizes the importance of slowing down conversations and underst...
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Season 1
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Episode 69
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45:43
Step 8 - Healing Families Through Willingness w/ Jon I
In this Pathway to Recovery episode, Jon I. shares his journey of addiction, hitting rock bottom, and ultimately finding healing through the 12-step process of SAL 12-Step. He discusses the process of working up to and including Step 8...
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Season 1
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Episode 68
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43:34
Differentiating and Understanding Narcissism & Sexual Addiction w/ Sherie Christensen
In this episode, host Tara McCausland and guest expert Sherie Christensen discuss Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), its diagnostic criteria, and misconceptions around the term 'narcissist' within today's culture. Sherie explains the diff...
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Season 1
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Episode 67
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43:48
Step 7 - Life Keeps on Life-ing w/ Kahi W
In this episode of the 'Pathway to Recovery Podcast,' hosted by Justin B., the discussion centers on step seven of the 12-step recovery program, featuring Kahi W., a betrayed spouse of a sexual addict. Kahi shares her personal journey of the su...
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Episode 66
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52:38
Healing Through a Trauma-Informed Lens: Insights from APSATS President, Jeanne Vattuone
In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Jeanne Vattuone, LCSW, CSAT, and current APSATS president. She explains the evolution of the trauma-informed treatment model and its benefits for the betrayed and the betrayer over the tradition...
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Season 1
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Episode 65
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47:05
Step 6 - Speaking From Scars, Not from Open Wounds w/ Brady W
In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery Podcast, host Justin B. guides listeners through step six of the 12-step recovery program with guest Brady W. Justin shares his experiences as a recovering sex addict and introduces Brady, who discusse...
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Episode 64
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42:01
Gaslighting, Betrayal Blindness & Self-Deception w/ Michelle Mays
In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Michelle Mays about the complex and harmful phenomenon of gaslighting. Mays explains the four types of gaslighting—lying, reality manipulation, scapegoating, and coercion—and the impact each has...
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Season 1
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Episode 63
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48:58
Step 5 - Rigorous Honesty w/ Carolyn E
In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, Justin B. explores step five of the SAL 12-step program with guest Carolyn E. Carolyn shares her personal journey through the steps, particularly her experiences with Step 5, highlighting the ...
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Episode 62
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48:55
Meet the Speakers of the 2024 S.A. Lifeline Conference & Why You Won't Want to Miss It
In this special episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Tara McCausland introduces speakers from the upcoming 2024 S.A. Lifeline virtual conference happening on September 26-28, 2024. The episode features insights from notable speakers...
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Season 1
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Episode 61
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18:01
The Scoop on Defining and Diagnosing the Problem and the Latest in Sexual Addiction Research w/ Stefanie Carnes
In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Dr. Stefanie Cranes about the challenges of defining and diagnosing sex addiction. Topics covered include the historical context for diagnosis problems, the stigma and societal misunderstandings...
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Season 1
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Episode 60
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49:10
Q&A - What are some barriers to working Step 4 and how do I overcome them?
In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss the challenges and significance of Step Four in the recovery process. The hosts elaborate on the fears and barriers associated with Step Four, emphasizing the need for trust in God, h...
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Season 1
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Episode 59
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25:13
Step 4 - Help Me See What I Am Not Seeing w/ Bill K
In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, host Justin B., a recovering sex addict, discusses Step Four of the 12-step recovery program with guest Bill K. Bill shares his personal journey, exploring his struggles with sex addiction...
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Season 1
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Episode 58
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50:16
Q&A - Is relapse a part of recovery?
In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss the concept of relapse in the context of recovery from sexual addiction. The main discussion revolves around whether relapse is part of recovery, differentiating between terms like la...
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Season 1
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Episode 57
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17:37
Why Couples Need to Grieve and Mourn to Facilitate Betrayal Trauma Healing & Addiction Recovery w/ Jake Porter
In this episode, host Tara McCausland and guest expert Dr. Jake Porter discuss the significance of grief in the healing process for betrayed partners and how essential it is for both partners in a relationship to engage in the mourning process....
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Season 1
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Episode 56
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42:40
Q&A - How do recovery principles change the way I parent?
In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss applying recovery principles in parenting and how these principles can positively impact parenting style. They emphasize the importance of surrender, trust in God, and the shift from ...
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Season 1
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Episode 55
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18:21
Step 3 - Willingness, Boundaries, and Relief w/ Brittany B
In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast , host Justin B. and guest Brittany B. discuss the transformative power of the 12-step recovery program, focusing primarily on Step 3. They touch on the significance of turning one's will and l...
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Season 1
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Episode 54
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49:18
Q&A - Why and how do I decide to turn my will over to God?
In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B discuss the challenges and importance of Step 3 in the recovery process: making the decision to turn our will and lives over to the care of God. They delve into why this can be difficult, and ...
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15:56
Your Nervous System During and After Sexual Betrayal w/ KayLee Dunn
In this episode, host Tara McCausland welcomes guest expert KayLee Dunn, a psychotherapist and betrayal navigation coach. KayLee shares her expertise in helping individuals, especially women, rebuild trust and heal after intimate be...
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1:01:33
Q&A - How can I respond to trauma triggers in a healthy way?
In this episode, host Tara McCausland and S.A. Lifeline executive assistant Jeni Brockbank discuss how to manage trauma triggers effectively. Jeni shares insights on understanding trauma triggers and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion...
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Season 1
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Episode 51
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14:16